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David Shaw's avatar

In personal experience family myths fall into one of several categories: 1. The attempt to insert ones own life into the family history in a twisted or invented narrative. 2. To obfuscate or hide a family scandal 3. To perpetuate a grievance, usually concerning stolen land, lost inheritance, etc.

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Peter Anthony's avatar

Thank you for this thoughtful piece. Many of the points raised here connect directly with what I’ve been trying to do in my own family history writing. I’m based in Australia, and as I trace the lives of my convict ancestors and their descendants, I see similar patterns — especially in how suspicion of outsiders and decisions about who belongs have shaped communities.

One moment that stays with me comes from the life of Robert Anthony, an Irish teenager who arrived in Australia seeking a better future. He is my great-great-grandfather. By his late twenties, he had found employment as a turnkey inside a prison in Toowoomba, then still very much a frontier town in Queensland. Just before taking up his post, he witnessed a public hanging of two men — one Aboriginal, one Chinese. Both had committed crimes, and they were hanged side-by-side, but the image stays with me as a symbol of how harshly outsiders were judged. The irony, of course, is that the Aboriginal man was no outsider to this land at all.

Your writing speaks to these issues clearly and carefully. I’m glad I came across your work and will be following with interest.

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